I ended my relationsip with a girl some 13 years ago. She married some 10 years ago and has a young boy. I seldom thought about her.
Some 2 weeks ago, I dreamed about her (just saw her in two brief scenes; I don't think the scenes have any significance). Since then, I started thinking of her. The intensity has increased daily to a level even stronger than anytime when we were dating and it is so strong that my sleep is disrupted. This is really weird as I had never experienced feelings remotely like this.
1. Why am I suddenly thinking of her at such an intense level after all these years? Is there a message for me and, if yes, what is it? (I came up with an explanation, but I won't tell because telling will frontload your opinions.)
2. Does timing have any significance? (Why am I having the experience now rather than years earlier?)
Please assist so that I can resolve the issue and return to peace.