Thank you all for your response and much needed help,
i spent hours today reading about the BECS cream & the reviews were amazing.
The only concern that i have is that i'm 99% sure it is not melanoma ( i looked at dozens of pictures comparing melanoma and the basal cell carcinoma) and it really doesn't look like melanoma at all, however i don't have a biopsy result from a doctor to confirm that 100%. With that said i'm just a little afraid to use it since they don't recommend it with melanoma. I'm not sure what to do since my grandma doesn't want the doctors to touch it...