I'm really sorry. Really. And if you think my post is detrimental to the thread you do have my permission to delete it. Truly. But if one is in a MARRIAGE, and he or she must continue it ALONE, then a marriage it is NOT - it is a SHAM.
And for what? For God to eventually give the one who sticks it out a slap on the back and give them a high five and a slap on the back and say, "Atta girl or atta boy! You done good?"