SS---Thank you for posting an update. I have thought about you quite a bit and wondered how things were going for you.
With this post, you have shown once again, what a strong woman you are. You've also passed along some very helpful advice for us all. By doing so, you've also shown once again what a generous, giving person you are.
I know that in the long run, you are going to be okay.
Your post was very moving. I found myself reading it with tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat.
Please know that you will be in my thoughts. Do keep us posted. By detailing your experience, you are giving tremendous help and encouragement to others going through similar things.