Please don't misunderstand - I attribute nothing about my fiesty nature as a young person to smoking pot! Marijauna was not to blame then, nor was it responsible when I became older, calmer and could enjoy smoking without negative consequence. ANYTHING in the hands of the wrong person can have less than desirable results, but ESPECIALLY Alcohol which has a well-established reputation for death and destruction. Not so many have perished from pot...! Personally, I have done neither in a number of years, but of the two I would most certainly smoke before I would drink. In your case you are well to not try marijuana, as it would be wasted unless you are open to the experience.....