Please accept my most heartfelt an deepest sympathy. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. Actually, in recent years, this callousness is very common, I am sorry to say. I first came across it in 2001 when my dad passed and even with my own mother in 2005. At first I was shocked. With my mom I kind of expected it, as I had seen the doctors' reactions to her illness.
No longer is there compassion in the medical profession. Or let me say, very rarely. It is a business, a for profit business, and that's all.
I am so very sorry for your experience. Thank you for sharing it with us.