why a man does what he does intrigues and fascinates the finest intellects in the profession. you've laid it all out really and now are suffering your own internal punishment. what more can be said about what lies can do for your past, present, and future. maybe, just maybe other guys out there in curezone land that are getting laid by others without their wedding rings on will change their ways. maybe. hot singles sex is pretty powerful, as you've experienced, and most fall prey to it's magic. i can't count the number of friends and relative's marriages devestated by the lieing, the cheating, and absolute disregard for the other's feelings who have gone through the same ordeal as you. what do you say to that guy? good luck? hope your next woman understands? don't lie any more? just sounding off might be the best remedy of all...