Re: feeling onfused..

Hi, I´m sorry for what you have been through.
I one got so depressed, I was afaid to go out of the house, but that is history.

If you got so a strong connection, why didn´t you tell him the truth? ( Afraid of meeting him) Whas it embarrasing?

I know how you feel, but I´m sure you´re also aware of how he feels. (in fact the doesn´t know the real reason) he might think you´re married, or just unsure of what you want, and the list could be endeless.

I guess, it´s a good idea that you make now the move and go to meet him.

Be daring,this life is for those who dare.

Why don´t you tell him. " I´ll go to your city and I´ll be in a certain place( hotel, cafeteria, etc)" I´ll be there for a period of time and I´d would like you to show up"

Then, DO IT!. If he goes GOOD, if he doesn´t GOOD. At least you would have face the situation.

Don´t give this a "life or death" proportions.

Be sure that you´ll survive, no matter what is the out come.
Take one step at a time!
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