actualhealth,
then you should accept my version of events after the details have been posted, and where this failure of acceptance would be a private matter for you.
You are at liberty to believe or not, and where it is unfortunate that I am unable to corroborate my story and for the reasons I have already given.
I have already explained my position on being defensive. That should suffice, unless you are unable to comprehend those reasons.
Enough said and let that be the end of the matter.