With all my respect for your opinion, I don´t agree that you create all.
I don´t think we´re like "gods", that create subconsciously bad stuff for ourselves.
I have also heard that, you chose your parents... I just wonder why I chose two common people, instead of the Rotchild Family. (Just kidding)
I don´t think a woman chooses to be raped. So, besides being raped, she has to carry the burden that she chose it? (Not my case)
I think that the words "shit happens", might not be very profound and don´t have an ancient philosophical wisdom.
But IMPO, in a plain way I agree that, "shit just happens" .