Re: Not strange at all...

"You can't play that "what if" game when lives are at stake."


How were my "What ifs" contradicting what you said about lives at stake?

It sounded like she's relying on him to keep his promise in signing the "contract". What if he doesn't? Then what? There was nothing wrong with this question. So if he doesn't, she gets scared and sticks around some more and gets beat up for showing it to him?


Like I said, she needs a back up plan because the contract isn't going to get signed.

OP said:

"I am having a contract drawn up for him to sign stating he will wave all rights in the event of a divorce. I don't know how he will react when the time comes."

He'll probably react like a typical narcistic. He'll be mad and offended by this and probably hit her. So hopefully when it is shown, it's in a court or somewhere with witnesses and you're NOT living together when it's shown to him so he doesn't go home and beat you up for it.

So the contract doesn't get signed. Then once the divorce process starts, they are fighting over custody..which is WHAT she doesn't want and can be prevented with a better plan such as going to therapy so there's a professional on her side. I'm no expert but I think we can agree on this at least since we both mentioned it.




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