I’m cured. I think you guys are addicted to your suffering. You like the situation you are in and are comfortable in your suffering. You don’t want it to change. There is nothing wrong with that. Stubbornness seems to also be a part, you don’t want to give up what you thought was ‘right’ and so continue down your same path of suffering, just to prove that you were not ‘wrong’. We all know how that turns out and how long that road is. Oh well, you’ll wake up one day when you are genuinely ready to seek a change.