Re: My narcissistic father wants me to call him.

Thanks for the update. There's no pleasing a narcissist. I quickly learned that when dealing with my mother. For example, when I went to college I was near my grandmother (mother's mother). Never mind that my mother hardly ever called her, I was expected not only to call my grandmother frequently but I was expected to visit her and take her out somewhere (even though I didn't own a car). If I called once a week, that wasn't enough. Then if I upped it to twice a week, that, too, wasn't good enough. It's a no-win situation!

At least with your father coming to visit you, you will have some control of the situation if you find you've had enough. No worries about not being able to get an earlier flight back home when you can't take it anymore.

"He talks and you agree with everything". Yup--sounds like my mother. Even though my parents stayed married until the end, if I was alone with her, she would use the time to bitch about my father. I think it's best to try and tune out Ns when they start ranting.