It reallys sounds like you need a vet. Your kitty is in distress. The messages you already have here are terrific...but once you get the problem under control, ... may I add that my kitty, as she got older (over ten) started having constant bladder infections....but when I started putting parlsey in her food...(she ate raw...but I steamed it and pureed it) they went away and never came back. She lived to be 20.