One thing that I remember from the 4 agreements, is that there is no way to know the true intention that lies in the heart of another person. Very true in my experience. I think the "good book" suggests this too in the ...do not judge lest ye be judged...sensibility?
Everything outside our self can look quite distorted. When we cross into other's intentions, we cross into the field of assumptions. All we can really do, I suppose, is focus on our intentions and create from there.
Anyway this situation between parties will sort itself out. It probably doesn't need our help. Well not mine anyway. If you feel your help is needed then continue.