Re: Help. I need to get out. Scared.

I want to scream! You are away at college, you're not seeing this man on a daily basis. This is a good time for you to break away, yet you keep coming back for more! If you are staying with him and putting up with this abuse because you think that no one else will go out with you---get that thought right out of your head. Break up with him already. Don't listen to his whining or his threats. Just stop taking his calls, block his number.

I suggest you do one or both of the following:
1) Avail yourself of the counseling department of your college. You have some serious self-esteem issues that you need to work on.
2) Go to this website:
http://www.codependents.org
and see if there are any meetings where you are. If there are, start going!

I guarantee that if you don't break up with him, your life will continually be miserable. One day you will wake up and wonder just why you wasted your youth on this guy.

So...in short...break up with him and make it stick, seek out counseling and/or start going to Co-dependents Anonymous meetings! Tweet