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Re: Stimulating a woman, HERE's how to do it!
well... it's probably YOU not working your wang in the right directions. Which way are you pointing it? The best direction is UP. Just plunging in deep following the grain is not what you always want to do. You must create friction inside. You need to "rub the roof" as I call it. That's near the G-spot. Missionary position will not help this. You need to be on your knees and shins, and her knees need to be held up (her holding them). Even putting her knees together and turning her left or right can help, depends if your wang is naturally curved left or right. If it curves left, then tilt her to the left so the top left edge of your tip will rub the roof. Flexing yourself can help keep it stiffer and will be more effective with rubbing the right spot. Tip: do Kegel exercises! Her too! read my post here...
//www.curezone.org/forums/fm.asp?i=1528476#i
One MAJOR tip I can give you to assure you are rubbing the roof is with your fingers push in and down towards yourself on the soft spot above her pubic mound. Place the butt of your hand on her mound. You should feel yourself inside with your fingers. That will help make contact on the inside and it will drive her nuts! And if you're handy enough (pun) use your thumb to rub her clitoris at the same time. Don't rub it too much or it will desensitize, only rub when she's getting close and as she cums.
Even more important tip!
YOU need to do some banging on her. I'm suspecting you guys probably need to change it up some. Too many people know what happens to work for them and stick with one or two positions. She's probably used to the same ol routine and she "mentally" knows the only way she'll get off is that one position you always use and her rubbing herself. First off, make damn sure your fingernails are cut and edges FILED smooth. When you bang her, make sure to rub the roof with two fingers. Over time it will become rough (feels like a larger version of the hard pallet on the roof of your mouth) and the nerve in the middle will swell up (about the size of your pinkie). This is the area you want your wang rubbin! It's VERY recommended to get her warmed up first (foreplay and rubbin/bangin) and you MUST get her to cum at least 2 times before you stick it in her. Then she'll cum easier. Remember, it's all about her!! Change it up and her mind will be excited with the different strategies. Sex is quite mental at the same time physical.
I passed on some knowledge to a virgin on Yahoo Answers a few years back. You can read it here...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap7z2bucIG_XIQgzzsvoONHty6IX;_yl...
I'm sure she will benefit from you doing this!
Good luck! Be sure to let me know how it goes :)