Birth Control

I'm interested birth control that doesn't include condoms for my husband and I. I currently use the pill. No matter what, it is unnatural to try and make the body not reproduce as a result. Every options seems terrible for the body: the pill has some connections with cancer. IUD's get terrible reviews on the forums. Surgery while appealing is potentially even more scary - having my insides cut and developing internal scar tissue. So the basic question is what's the least bad of all of these evils? I would love to get "fixed" and I don't know if that's worse than the pill. Any thoughts of where I can research this or is there a knowledgeable person on these forums in this particular subject? Any help is appreciated. Thx...

~Ruth