Has anyone ever had an addict wife and needs to learn new behavior to make the necessary changes to make the marriage healthy again??

Here's is my story.
I am a 37 year old married white male with two beautiful children. My wife went into rehab on Sept. 13th, 2009. She is now home and I am struggling to find peace and change my codependent behavior. I know that I can't control her addiction, and I really don't want to. I know that I will be fine without her, but I have this desire to give our marriage another chance, change my codependent behaviors, and see if this will work. Has anyone been in this situation, and what was the outcome. I am just trying to find out if I am wasting my time. Tweet