Re: fearful of taking the plunge

Hi!

It's been almost a year since my nose job and I'm very happy.
I used to spend HOURS researching...before and afters...rhinoplasty forums, you name it.
I had 2 separate consults. The first doctor was the most arrogant person I have ever met. I cried after I left and I don't cry easily. He also wanted $75- to tell me all the things I had already learned online. (My husband was so angry; he drove back and picked up my check).
The second consult was free and so wonderful. He listened to my concerns; he explained in detail what he could do for me...basically walked me through the surgery. I had typed a list of questions/fears and he covered all of them without making me feel like I was stupid or like I was wasting his time.

Guess who got my $4000?

You know the first doctor just about rolled his eyes at me when I wanted to see before and afters?

Your fears are valid.
But research and knowledge is power and the key to finding the right surgeon. The right surgeon is thorough in every aspect. From when he answers your questions to when he stitches you up.
No question should ever offend him/her.
So my advice is to know what you want from your nose and have realistic expectations about it. Find a handful of surgeons you are interested in...and if you are willing to travel this will open more doors. Then have consults with them if possible. Most are free. Don't think because they charge for consults means they are superior to the next guy.

Always tell them what worries you...the "after" being strange, pain, revisions if needed. My doctor told me that he really wanted me to be happy with my nose the first time around because, I quote..."after that, I'm working for free." He cared about my feelings and that makes a difference.

It's funny, but MANY of the horror stories I have heard were surgeons from Florida.
What seems to be the most common denominator between these stories? No one did his or her homework. Very little research was done. You are smart to be working so hard and asking many questions. The bad experience is uncommon.

I thought about my nose everyday since I began to notice it. I hated it. It was like I could almost FEEL people looking at my profile. It wasn't true, but I was very self-conscience. So since I didn't have $4000 sitting around I got CARE credit (for plastic surgery) and took the plunge, as you say.

First surgery ever...LOVED it. I was thrilled.

I think you shouldn't let your fears hold you hostage. If this is important to you and would boost your esteem, then research the hell out of it and do it.
No, you are not crazy to want this.

Good luck!
HW