frustrated

I'm 26 years old and have been dealing with facial hair for sometime. It's more noticable in my chin area and neck. I've had tons of blood work done and my endocrinolagist cannot seem to find anything hormonally wrong and says my test came back fine. She put me on the sprolactine and a birth control that is suppose to slow the hair growth. Needless to say nothing has changed and the hair seems to be increasing the older I get. I have to pluck atleast twice a day and still have hair to show and now the hair is comming in ingrown and causing cyst like bumps until I'm able to remove the hair causeing scaring. I don't know what to do at this point and am become so embaressed it depresses me. I don't want to date because I don't want to be seen as a freak! I've heard of the saw palmetto extract, vanique cream, and laser if anyone has any advice I would greatly appreciate it! I seem to be the only one in my family with the problem so I have noone to relate to.