It will be very interesting to find out how in particular your levels of free testosterone compare with normal readings -- though of course that's only one factor.
Don't let it get you down, whatever. For myself, I'm quite happy simply living with a high-testosterone, low-estrogen situation and I refuse to let it spoil my life. As far as the facial hair is concerned, it's just a fact of life in our household that dad, mom and the older boys shave. And the fact that it's not a "guilty" secret pretty well removes the problem.