Count your lucky stars your no longer together! You should cut all ties with him! He has NO RESPECT for you!
I JUST broke things off with some loser I was briefly involved w/who pulled the same BS. I frankly had never in my life dated someone who behaved this way! He was mentally/emotionally abusive in other ways as well. Often standing me up or being very late. Just found out he was always telling other men we know in common through the gym that he kept "his woman (me) on a very short leash." He also bragged about OTHER women he never actually had--we were together almost every night and I checked up on him the other nights! Some men are just so messed up!
Consider yourself lucky to be free of him! Let's both pray for the strength to resist going back to these lowlifes!