Re: Girl-watching boyfriend

Thank you both for your responses.
I know I'm certainly not the only woman with this problem. I can pick up on the feelings of other women when they're with their guy (or presumably their guy) & they encounter me & they perceive me as a threat as an attractive woman & sometimes I catch the male companion of a woman eyeing me in their presence. I know the feeling well.
I have never had this issue with any other boyfriend. With my current one, I noticed his ogling tendencies immediately & didn't say anything. It took months & finally I couldn't take it anymore & let him have it. He says it's my problem & it doesn't mean anything, meaning he doesn't desire them or anything, & that I should be like women in other parts of the world who are unfazed by it.
I don't think it's asking too much of my man not to ogle. He begs to differ & likens it to admiring a beautiful flower. Oh & by the way bluemoon, he says he doesn't mind one bit if I look at a goodlooking man (or woman).
Well, we have other differences & right now we're no longer together although we still talk.
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