people do it to me all the time. if you find a way to forgive these types of people let me know. i avoid these people, dont really pay to much attention what they have to say. some people are not forgiveable in my book. but i know that forgiving is the best way. i have dreams about what it would be like to be nice to people. its all comesdown to how healthy and ballanced your body is. im starting to exercise more and eat healthy. the better i take care of myself the more i can get closer to forgiving them. the trick is to not let them upset you to the point you wanna drink or eat (over eat) the wrong foods. if you can do that you got it masterd.