thanks for posting this link. this is my last relationship. hes also and addict (pain pills, and unknowingly at times to me cocaine) alcohol, bulemia, gambling,
got to the point he didnt want to see his family, nor let me see mine. had to leave after a bad fight after i took kids to visit family a weekend and asked him to sober up or consider help (big mistake!!)
i am still having problems understanding and he is stalking and saying bs about me too. i am sad trying to understnd this and having trouble forgiving or letting go.