Always had a great sex drive until about 2 years ago, it started changing (at 45) and lately (47) I don't get the urge for sex & it takes FOREVER "IF" I get to orgasm!!! I was given testosterone cream 2 years ago but used it haphazardly as it wasn't as bad but today it is almost zilch. I use natural progesterone cream and plan to get back on the testosterone. I have my concerns of using the bio-identical hormonal replacement but then again, I already use progesterone. My concerns are that menopause is a natural process that we are stopping. I have read Suzanne Somers' book, however I am still skeptical as we are changing our body evolution. Maybe I should read her book again. You are not alone and I hope we can get some help for this problem. I myself don't like living with no sexural responsiveness. Thanks for posting.