Re: How do I change so I attract a man who is emotionally available?

I think we'd need to know more on your question. How long have you been single and actively dating? There are many, many single people out there and IMO, very few are right for each other. This means that the vast majority of people you meet will not be right for you!

A trend that I've noticed in the dating world is that women often will try to find interest with any guy that has good qualities whereas guys show true interest much more rarely. If the guy doesn't see long term potential, he doesn't try to make a relationship anyway b/c she has good qualities. This is why women find themselves chasing guys when the guys are "Just Not That Into You".

This is not a big deal. I'm picky so I spent years - most of my 20's - single, not even in a relationship. Right before my 28th b-day, I met the right guy and things changed!

FYI - if you're adventuresome, I do like eHarmony. I dated guys I met online and offline and as it turned out I met my hubby on eHarmony. I think it has a feel of people actually looking for a relationship, rather than for a booty call. Tweet