How do I change so I attract a man who is emotionally available?

I think that I am open and sharing with a man in a relationship yet I seem to attract emotionally unavailable men. Sometimes when I share or try to share my interests, thoughts or beliefs I can see their noninterest so we end up talking about safe subjects. This seems to indicate that it's a reflection of how I am if all the men are that way. By the way I am interested in most of what they share and I tried to share subject that I think they would be interested in and not just girly topics. I need some help in learning what I can do to change. Tweet