Once again, OMG! It so explains so much! My Hubby (bless him) is the complete opposite of me, he can make decisions easily, he is so random he can just say 'let's do this' without a thought as to how,when or where, whereas I do all the thinking and planning.WOW! very happy to hear it's not just me being silly!Prior to mirena i was so confident and could make decisions, usually the right ones.Since then, my life has been chaotic. I used to have all the bathrooms cleaned in an hour, i used to try to beat my time, now i feel great if it's done once a week! My hubby is a great guy, recently I yelled and swore at my mum and when she asked why i had yelled at her he said 'it's because she cares about you. If she didn't care, she wouldn't bother' how true is that! So many times i have said ' why are you still here?' And he always is. Guess I'm lucky. not many guys would have lived thru this and stayed cos they know the other side (the nice one) i am starting to feel better but is so easy to crash and burn (like today; thank the higher power I was not called in to work!)I know i'll feel better again, just feel rotten today.Hope yours is a good one! boots