I do believe you. I too am tapped into those types of energies. I enjoy sensing, feeling, and experiencing supernatural phenomenon....it makes me feel sort of special. On the flip side I have a very real and concrete life that i need to live and i need to be on top of my game in order to make the right decisions. I grew up in a house where decisions where based off of fear and uncertainty and i can tell you that those decisions always came with a price. I dont want to ramble but i just wanted to let you know that i didnt mean to rag on you but it just seems that you are unwilling to do anything other then communicate and try to find out what this "spirit" wants. I think that is fine if you were retired and didnt have kids to think about and you could undertake this as a hobby of sorts.....but the fact of the matter is that you have a decision you are wanting to follow through on and you are letting fear and uncertainty keep you and your family from moving forward with your life. I think you really like the notion that your house may be visited by spirits but if you let them control you then its not really your house. sorry if i came across as harsh but like i said....i just wanted to try and get you a little motivated to keep your feet on the ground and take control of your life. good luck