Re: Difficult situation!

Luella May,

You commented:

"First of all, if you love someone, age means nothing. However, the relationship with bf #2 is young. Is it truly love that will last forever?"

We have had that talk. I do look really young for my age, but so does he! He has gone to great lengths to assure me it is no problem, but it DOES bother me a bit, especially since he is very attractive and I have watched from a distance girls hit on him. It would be something I would just have to accept with him.

about:
"If you go back to bf number one, even if you do marry him, once he has you, how will he treat you? Only you can answer this. What is his track record? Or maybe with this new bf showing up he realizes that he really does love you and things will be different. I don't know. Only you can answer this."

As I commented in my email, he has had a track record of a difficult time getting close. What you said about the new bf showing up is exactly what he said happened to him. He has kept his word so far. I warned him I would probably be pretty watchful during his "proving" period. I can't help it, I don't like to go backwards.

Thank you so much for the heartfelt advice. It just makes me feel better about holding off and making sure. That is what I am going to continue doing until I feel it in my heart what is right!