Don't listen to your friends; you are far too young to become cynical. Men may have a bit more of a biological urge to spread their seed, but they have emotions and feelings just like us. And they do NOT like all girls! Sweetie, there are plenty of intelligent, good guys out there. Don't be afraid to trust! Most of all you need to trust yourself! Believe that you will know the good from the bad, the real from the fake ... and you'll find someone who is right for you! Here's a pretty love song, written by (gasp!) a man!