Cancer boy and Pisces girl

Hi Tracey,
Here's an interesting situation..... Now that I know more about astrology I see there has been more to my life than meets the human eye.
I met a Cancer boy in school when I was little, and had lots of messages in my 3rd eye. I did not immediately feel warm towards him. He was loud and rude...down right mean to people, and I tried to watch my manners and was very friendly. So there was no obvious common ground here...however the energy was pulling us together. He started to talk to me very sincerely about his life and family (of course his higher self knew I would be empathetic). He became a friend to be open and honest without fear. Unfortunately, his luck is quite bad. His actions and life path went down the gutter. He had problems with addictions, authority issues, deaths in the family, and no tools to handle it.
We did not see eachother for about 2 years. We could not be friends because he was quite cruel to me during his grieving for the death of a family member. It broke my heart. I thought of him everyday. But, I knew I did not want to be responsible for this "lost soul". When I was 18 I had message in my mind that I was getting a letter from him on my birthday. I got it two days before my birthday!!!! It said all the same feelings I was having, but they were his feelings for me. We could not live apart!
I went to college, he visited me there. We wrote letters and confided in eachother as we always had. Skip to the End.......... He again is quite mean and manipulative, especially with girls. I was always hurting inside. I wanted to move on with my life, so the last yelling screaming match I said "I am not doing this anymore." I ended it. He scared my parents and me with the things he said. He just could not let go. Finally with the threat of police, he left me a lone.
Weird thing is...I have doubted all my inuition because I had so many intuitive messages about him than anyone. They all expressed HIS need for me. He has so much pain inside. I ended up hating him for the pain he caused in my life. That's not a productive reason to bring two people together is it???
Until Yesturday. Its gone. I don't hate him at all. I heard a song that made me cry and I downloaded it and listened to it 100x's. Images of him ran through my head with this song for some reason. All the pain he was feeling and I was feeling left both our bodies I feel. Just after i turned the music off, the News was on TV where my Mom was sitting. the news said his town's name, I heard it and thought, "Did I hear correctly?", it said the town name agin, I thought "OK I get it." Then My Mom shouted, "Did you hear that!", and said his town a third time at me. I guess my higher self knows that my intuition can be deaf. LOL!!
So I have two questions: Did my (pisces)soul have a contract with his (cancer) soul? And this whole process ran for about twelve years...didn't you tell me, Tracey, that had been going through a thirteen year cycle that is ending now??? Maybe that was it???

Love,
Gracey Tweet