Thanks a lot Tracey for your reply.Now things are getting quite clear to me now, and it's true what you said on ideas about home & family as being passionately exchanged between us(unfortunately being opposed coldly sometimes by his saturn).
Anyway you mentioned about a KITE configuration...will this be a planet forming a trine or a sextile to the planets in the grand trine OR a planet in opposition the apex (in this case the venus-mars conjunction) in the trine? Ive been confused about that distinction on a kite.
Thanks in advance for your reply,im more convinced than ever ive found the best astrology forum in the net. Cheers!