I was molested by a cousin when I was 5, he was in his 20's. I've gotten wonderful help. Today's therapy really isn't that helpful. I have a couple of suggestions: go to emofree.com and you'll get a lot of help there. Also, find a chiropractor who uses Neural Organizational Technique (N.O.T.), there are not very many across the US that use this technique. If you live in or near Michigan I know a great one that has helped me.
I hope this helps. Sorry for your horrible pain.
Midge