Woah....that is intense and terrible, Mom...my heart goes out to you.
Well...it sounds like you're definitely 'plugged in' to the Oneness that is existence. You may want to exercise this gift and explore it some more...it can greatly enhance your physical life. Although I can imagine that you're a little apprehensive, seeing as your experiences have been disturbing for you. But intense emotions carry great energy - that's why we'll feel it through the ethers (whether sleep or awake).
Read and explore...not everyone is so open and connected.