Listen to John McCain...... his posts are honest, cude and rude and straight to the point..... I've been married for 26 years, there were all the warning signs right up front..... but I chose to ignore them. About 3 years into the marriage, there was less and less sex. It mattered not to him, wether I was satisfied or not.... I've stuck it out this long in a VERY unfilfulling marriage, for my children...... HOWEVER now at the old age of 50, I'm thinking what an idiot I have been, and I wish this forum would have been around to give me some different prospectives 26 years ago. People can say sex is not everything in a marriage.... however impossible to have an intimate relationship without it. Isn't intimacy what a marriage is supposed to be about??? I can also tell you a list of things that are good about my husband..... but how good can it really be, if he is UNINTERESTED in satisfying his wife.