mole removal...help

Hello again,

Here I am again ...lol...but, this time, it's about a mole above my left breast, in between the top of the left breast, and the collar bone. It has been there since I was a little girl, and it started out round, and dark chocolate brown. Over the YEARS (since i am no 50), it has natrually changed, and eventually became more oval shaped, with a dark brown (chocolate) color on the top of it,(it's raised up a lot) and more of a flesh color around the edge .. it's been like that for years now, and about maybe, 7 - 8 yrs. ago, it started to "sprout" these little flesh colored thingys, which only grew to a cerain length (on the top of the mole), and then stopped. None of this is the problem, bec. it's never changed shape or whatever.
A few days ago though, i noticed, a dark brown "spot" on the outer lower edge of the mole, where it's basically skin color (see above). It is a very small little brown spot, the same color as the center of the mole. It is not a black spot, just basially a small brown spot, pretty tiny. I am going through "the change" of life, so things in and on my body, are totally changing ALL THE TIME! So, I'm not surprised at this either.

But, I think I would like to have it removed, JUST IN CASE....it's most likely nothing, jsut more hormonal insanity (and believe me, i've been to my dr.'s so many times over the past 2 yrs. since this "change" has been happening to me, with scary, wild, yet HARMLESS symptoms,), he seems to think it's nothing. Just, change.
But to me, well, I need peace of mind! All I do is look at it in the mirror! IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS, my mind is running away with itself, with fear. So, I've been looking on the net about diff. ways to remove a mole.....they don't look to nice!
There is no way I'm going to have this BURNED off! So, i came across other, more natural creams and ointments and whatever that apparently, dry it up, and it falls off/

can anyone here, recommend one? One that would be totally natural, and not HARSH!
also, does anyone here have any "mole" stories, and if they changed over the years, and if they removed them, and how? I need some support about this.

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