Re: Defender of all

That is so right Denise and you are smart. That is why are words are so important. Maybe one single word can cause a person to go over the edge. That is why try loving everyone with kindness. I want my forum to be of love and happiness not crudeness and rude remarks. You see. You say I should thank god when someone good came into my life and I do everyday. I have you, I have fatfluffcat and I have scores of new friends seeking to be part of my life. I try and share my life so people can see I have been involved in almost every aspect of their life and that I understand pain, I understand sickness and I understand abuse. Hey I not a dang scientist just someone who cares.

You will see at times I do use the tough love approach because some need a brick to fall on their head to get well. Like one young man was writing me for help and he just knew everything and kept arguing me. I finally told him, "If you know everything why are you writing to me." He changed drastically and took the advice. Tough love, works on some and on others not.

I am only one person with a forum who is trying to help, not perfect and not always right but one who cares. I care if you live or die, I get no financial reward and only reward is from Allah. I seek to have a better place in my next life. I have had it all. Money, my own business, the best husband, a son, many cats and dogs and now I want peace. I am searching for peace and quiet not rowdy and upheavel. Do I make sense?