Bella, if you are still reading, I hope you decide to stay.
You know how everyone is on their best behavior when they first meet? And then, like in school, as you get to know one another sometimes people grate against one another? Maybe that's what is going on here.
You contribute some valuable insight so I hope you re-evaluate after a few days and decide to stick around.
If nothing else, remember Steve set up the Water Fasting support group on Facebook so you would be welcome there!