Just continuing the thought process here. the men say to let the man hunt, but I always hear guys telling bragging stories of how a woman seduced them, or came onto them, etc.
I knew a guy who was a real ladykiller and was known to be a real sex maniac with many different women. when he finaly had a girlfriend, a real plain jane too, i asked him what he liked about her and he said she takes the reins and it was a nice change.