Where are you planning on moving? And, a joke I heard before moving to Ca:
Q) How do you say "fvck you" in Ca.?
A) *trust me*
There's some truth in that. I've found that midwesterners are a lot more upfront with their opinions, desires, etc. Took me a while to get it, I remember a few instances where I was deemed to be "harsh", sarcastic, etc.