Re: not

There 'are two different schools of thought here, glax, and I think you should examine them.  One is the person who comes across somebody who rubs them wrong, decides without much ta-do they don't particularly like them....and moves on.  They don't spend copious amounts of time thinking about all the reasons they hate the person or how justified they are to feel that way.  They simply trust their own judgment, move along, and don't spend too much time worrying that everyone else does not have the same searing insight they do into the other person.  They just don't care enough to waste their energy that way.

The other is the person who is hurt, nurses the wound, picks at it, makes it bleed some more, points, screams, accuses, watches, warns and ends up even more hurt than they were in the first place.

Both are just choices, really.  And although the second might shout more about self-respect than the former, it really is the first person who shows the most respect for himself.

Spend energy on the people/things that make you feel good.  Much wiser investment of your time.