Thank you so much for your reply SterlingOne.
Actually, I feel being logical is my downfall sometimes. At work I do tend to get into "discussions" over workmates, supervisor not being logical I cannot stand, have no patience for illogical people.
My most pressing problem right now, the one that is giving me stress and depresses me is my financial situation. More like a debt my partner does not know about. How can I get rid of it, the quickest possible way?
Susan