Glax, honestly, by your standards, most of us are. And I'm fine with it.
Even though I like reading about your cuddle parties and the thises and the thatses, would I ever do that? or go there? NO.
I'm glad that you do, it seems to work for you. But not, for *moi*. I have no interest whatsoever in cuddling with abject strangers.
Hell, I'm a swede from the great white north. I didn't even learn how to hug til I moved to California. I've put my own spin on it, it's a combo hug/push. I think it's working, nobody's tried to hump my leg lately.