Re: agree w/T whole-heartedly.
and i've caught lots of flack for doing so.
Yeah, V can get cranky.
So F-ing what? who doesn't? I'd rather have that cranky old mof-fo giving me sh1t for days and throwing in some truth and the workings of a REALLY FINE MIND.
Huge difference between being "nice" and REALLY being nice. I don't want lip service, I don't want some telling me "there, there, it's all going to be alright". Cuz you know what? It isn't and it ain't.
And, think about it....JUST FOR A MINUTE. Can anyone possibly have spent as much time on this god-forsaken website as much as V, or T, or me, or C, or N, or HoW, or countless others and NOT personalize it just a bit?
I know that various posters have offended me. And what is the source of that offense? The time I've logged in here, surely they must KNOW the battles I've fought and how their brand new "ah-ha" moment offends the sh!t out of me. Sometimes a phrase will set me off. I've gotten a lot better about just NOT logging in when I'm feeling that way.
I really don't know where I'm going with this. Just. Consider the fact that everyone behind these monikers is a human being. And that those of us with more time here have sooo many more reasons to feel thorny.
No need to chastise someone because they weren't prancing around with a bunch of tulips on a particular day.