Pay attention, we are not talking about feet, noses, or butts - we are talking about labia. And yes, there prbably is some upper limit on desireable size but it certianly isn't the size of pre-peubesent little girls, nor have I ever found labia that even approach this assumed upper limit!! As far as your dick goes, go ahead and tie a brick to it, maybe then you won't feel so threatened by a fully developed woman!!!