You like someone feel warm and want more warmth and and lubrication and friction
and then you are in bed and then you see a saggy labia and its not what you had in mind but perhaps or maybe not
You might not carry on those saggy lips or you will cuz u are there and that far but never again?
Funny, I do not mean to be defaming of visuals of men but I have never experienced a man saying no in bed nor out...regardless of labia
What a disappoint ment for the lady involved after heating it all upp!