It is good to see that through this fast you're able to focus your mind more on God as you continue. Just put your faith in Him and the right choise will eventually be chosen for you.
I understand what you mean when you talk about fixing plates for other people, because ever since I started fasting I enjoy cooking even more than I normally do. I cooked food for my little brother twice yesterday, I didnt got the urge to eat exept when I wanted to tast the food to make sure it was seasoned right.
I hope day 12 has been a good day, and everything's fine. I won't be on for a couple days since I'm going to orientation to sign up for classes and meet people and all that good stuff.
So yeah just continue with your fast, remeber you CAN do it.